to be there are 4 important rules for breaking up. and yes it's breaking up even if you are just dating and not serious. three are below. the forth to me is be specific yes it may be painful to hear things but if you aren't specific or are slightly vague it can confuse the other person and they will be just destined to repeat themselves over and over again.
another problem I have is during the body swerve (the ending of things) I don't fight. its useless isn't it. cause if the other person is done then what is the point. I don't argue I just sit and listen usually in a haze of confusion.
No Chemistry is a bullshit answer. or maybe I just dont understand chemistry... to me chemistry is relating to each other shared interests, laughter, inside jokes, making out. Talking about things of importance. which i think we did all that. if you didn't want to open up to me about so then its your fault cause maybe I can't completely relate to you since I have not had the same experiences that doesn't mean I can't still sympathize and understand.
don't bullshit. break ups will hurt and there will always be one person that will feel relief and the other a range of emotions of WTF?, sad, disappointment.
Cause i believe in the saying It was Great until it wasn't. and I guess you hit that limit.
maybe i'll just blame my poor mood on the weather. and at least you phoned. I got a bit of an upgrade it is the more decent option than email or text.
and don't worry. Its not completely your fault. I am intense and wear my heart on my sleeve. I understood that that wasn't you. that you moved slower and I was ok with that cause i thought we were good. i understand that people move at different speeds... I didn't love you. I liked you I had the best times with you, and thought you did too. I just had hope that we could have (given time) been something real.
But I guess I was wrong and I'll be wrong again.
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Three important rules for breaking up
Don't put off breaking up when you know you want to
Prolonging the situation only makes it worse
Tell him honestly, simply, kindly, but firmly
Don't make a big production
Don't make up an elaborate story
This will help you avoid a big tear jerking scene
Be prepared for the boy to feel hurt and rejected
Even if you've gone together for only a short time,
And haven't been too serious,
There's still a feeling of rejection
When someone says she prefers the company of others
To your exclusive company,
But if you're honest, and direct,
And avoid making a flowery emotional speech when you brake the news,
The boy will respect you for your frankness,
And honestly he'll appreciate the kind of straight forward manner
Don't put off breaking up when you know you want to
Prolonging the situation only makes it worse
Tell him honestly, simply, kindly, but firmly
Don't make a big production
Don't make up an elaborate story
This will help you avoid a big tear jerking scene
Be prepared for the boy to feel hurt and rejected
Even if you've gone together for only a short time,
And haven't been too serious,
There's still a feeling of rejection
When someone says she prefers the company of others
To your exclusive company,
But if you're honest, and direct,
And avoid making a flowery emotional speech when you brake the news,
The boy will respect you for your frankness,
And honestly he'll appreciate the kind of straight forward manner
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